Consent is a hot topic right now….as it should be! So we want to make sure you’re as well versed as possible in this necessary exchange before sexual activity.

1. What is consent?- A clear agreement between sexual participants that they are voluntarily and enthusiastically agreeing to sexual activity. This includes ALL sexual activity such as touching, kissing, licking, etc.

2. How do I talk about it?- Let’s make this clear, consent is more than a simple yes or no. Not only should it include discussing any boundaries you and your partner(s) might have, but it should also be an open discussion on what you’d like/envision about your sexual experience together.

3. It’s ongoing- Just because you discussed things before engaging in sexual activity doesn’t mean you stop asking permission when having your sexy fun. Remember, consent can be withdrawn at ANY time.

4. Coherence - In order to give consent the person MUST be coherent and capable of giving it. This means if someone is very intoxicated with drugs or alcohol OR they aren’t conscious (asleep) they can NOT give you consent and you shouldn’t be hooking up with them as this would be classified as sexual assault.

5. Make it sexy!- One of the biggest misconceptions is that consent comes in the way of having a hot sex-shesh but really this is a total myth! A few things you can try are:

   “It feel so good when you _____, do you want to do this?”

   “I think it’s so hot when we_____, do you want to do this?”

   “Can I take your clothes off?”

   “Can I kiss you here?”

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